remember what time, later at 11:00 i got a phone call saying thank god you are home, she thought it was carolyn, and i said, no, it's rose, and she said they never landed and i said well they probably went to massachusetts, and she said no, they did not land there, either, and i started calling and calling and calling and calling and it was awful. >> to look at the pictures of them they seemed like such a charmed couple, so incredibly good looking, what were they really like? >> like every other couple who had ups and doings but theirs were played out in public. they were fun to hang out with and generous, and they were just a regular, great couple. >>alisyn: there were rumors of marital discord. were they separated when this happened? >> no, not at all. they were together, and they had marital problems like everyone else, ups and downs but there was nothing out of the ordinary about their arguments. >>alisyn: you say their ups and downs were based on john's insensitivity. >> he grew up in the public eye and was used to be followed around by the press and it was sort of, sometimes he would and